When ever I watch something like TV shows, movies or in this case Japanese animation, such event are more of a pass time pretty much so like everyone else I'm sure, for me its like any other forms of entertainment, something to kill time so to speak and nothing more. But sometimes and very rarely in my case, that I encounter a show that I can fully relate to. A show that reminded me of what I was before and what influence me even now, and what became part of me, that something I will never forget as long as I live.
When I was young I always have weird wild fantasy of being in a band, like when your listening to your favorite music you sometime get the thought of yourself performing the act and at times in front of the mirror or whatever, I was no different. I remember it as if it was yesterday, back then I'll be left alone in the house during weekend. Then I'd get the broom or my sister's badminton rocket, get my collection of tapes and then rock the joint. Think about it now, it sure was an odd thing to do to kill time. That was my habit from elementary to high school though, it kind of evolve since then so to speak. Anyways, back then imagining myself performing in front of many people was just what it was "imagination" and nothing more. And I never even thought not in a million years that it would actually happen, an in a span of few months during my junior days in high school, that I became a part of and played with a band. I was 15 then, and it was fun.
Something I can relate to, K-On and Me
A few weeks back I started watching the Japanese animation show titled K-on. Its a story about four high school girls trying to sustain their school’s light music club despite one member being unable to read music or play musical instruments. At first I wasn't really sure if Id like to watch it, as I taught it to be more of a feminine/loli type kind of stuff written all over it, but I was wrong. Actually its a nice Anime, the characters are all female, the story line is great, and oddly enough one that I can actually relate to. Now I'm at the 6th episode of the animated series and looking forward to the next episode.
My Story
The Band that was, Looking back
It all started during my junior years in high school, and honestly prior to that, the totality of my musical experience was limited to brooms and badminton rockets or any wooden stick that serve as my dream guitar. Though there were a few musical instruments at home from my father's old harmonica (I wonder where that went) to a full pledge electronic keyboard. I on the other hand never bother to learn to play any of it. For some reason my interest on such things was high in a first day only to be hit dead low in the next. In other words I was too lazy and the stuff was too complicated so I thought. All my brothers and my sister taught them selves how to play those stuff and teaching a sibling is definitely not in the family rule book.
But, for some reason I ended up being in a band. quite a feat, if you think about it.
Was it destiny?
I doubt that very much, its more like a freaking accident. Anyway, As far as I could remember I was just setting by my desk doing about my own business when I overheard 3 of my classmates discussing something, was I eavesdropping? Nope, one could hear anything if its less than a foot away, by the way all three have musical background one way or the other. Like the lead guitarist (name GJ) is a second generation guitar player and his elder brother is already in a band, the rhythm and vocals (name AC) played guitar since elementary, same goes with the bassist (name RS), the drummer from another class (name RE) was also a second generation drum player. Me on the other hand...never-mind...
Though there were some in my family who actually played musical instruments including the guitar. But one can't seriously count that as a requirement. I think "hardly" is the proper word for it. Anyway, playing musical instruments in my family was just for killing time, and time is a priceless commodity at home.
Back to the to the main story
I was seated just a foot apart from those guys when I heard them saying they need a somebody to play the keyboards. I was looking at them when GJ ask me a question.
Do you know anyone who can play the keyboard?
I answered... nope But we do have a keyboard at home. A stupid answer to a serious question now that I think about it.
The three look at each other and smiled.
GJ and AC said to me would you like to join us.
I thought are you serious???
And for some stupid reason that I can't recall I said "sure" in the end.
Anyway our first practiced session was a complete mess. In my part I can only play on the left side of the keyboard since the chords were as clear as day virtually sticking out at the top of every left key, and I can only play one key at a time LOL, good thing the song was a simple piece, and I miraculously manage to be at tune with the rest. The real problem to their point of view and to my utter relief was the bassist, his timing was a bit off so was the drummer. I think it was from the excitement and everything. Anyway I was just totally kept myself silent during the proceeding, as I don't want them to notice my off the shelf just played today keyboard thing.
After a few hours of the sessions I ended up as the lead vocalist. Coz as it turn out the rhythm and vocals (AC) who was supposed to be the front act was all love song 50's to 70's era fan with a born again Christian background that finds Elvis to be a complete blasphemy. And could not or would not want to relate to any of the piece must of the members wanted disparately to play. While most of us were thinking the latest in like bon-jovi, guns n roses, etc... he was some place else, anyway we all had fun. As time passed by there were few changes within the band AC throw down the towel as will as RS then RH also a classmate came in as the new bassist in a four man band, we practice hard and I usually messed up most of the time, I was thankful for their patience and as always it was all for fun. We even played in a local concert for the first time during that summer and we did two cover songs.
Honestly, just thinking about it, was a bit embarrassing...
I actually messed up the first few seconds of the first song. I didn't forget the lyrics I just sang ahead of everyone else. Embarrassing huh? Anyway, I manage to correct it and actually finish the first piece
perfectly I also aced the second piece. We practiced for a few months but there was already something brewing between my parents and me. Sadly a few months after that I throw in the towel in a time when
were already in a roll and schedule to perform in few days time. Both of my parents particularly my father got a lot to do about it, they weren't really very supportive about it to begin with. But, since they were paying the bills, I guess I got no choice and left the band unwillingly. I played with the guys for almost a year and sadly left when thing started to move.
After that a new school year came, the band slowly and surely disintegrated, for reasons I don't know a feud erupted between the drummer and the rest of the band, A week before a appearing on a concert so he got kick out. That was a few short months after I left the band. I was shock to learn about it when the drummer (RE) approach me to ask a favor. He ask me to ask the guys to allow him to come up stage and perform. It got something to do with his girlfriend or something. Anyway, I was always in good terms with everyone though, I know how disappointed they were about me living the band. Anyway, I did what the RE ask and got him to perform unstage using an unplugged electric guitar. A friend of mine who attended the concert said that RE dance, jump and held that guitar up high even though it wasn't plug on to anything. I wonder if it fooled his girlfriend or the whole audience. Will at least he got his wish. They got a new vocalist though replacing my slot but that was after that said concert. And a few months before graduation RH the bass guitar player quit the band. The band continued on after a while with only GJ on lead guitar and ED as front man reinforce by GJ's brother and cousin whose band was disbanded a few years back. They got some gig in the local music sine but no major stuff. They did join a band contest and ended third, I was there to give support, that was my last involvement with the band by then I was already in college.
Last I heard everybody parted ways. "They all got married" hehehehe....
After I left the band I started teaching myself how to play the guitar. I find it a bit silly sometimes. While I was in the band I never took the time to learn how to play, only after living the band I started learning how to play the guitar by myself of course. Anyway I probably rate myself as fair if not average guitar player. I also had a chance to perform on stage in a local party about 200 people, were I sang 8 songs which also was my last performance, it was like a jamming session with lots of people watching. I still play the guitar every now and then just to kill time, and I still have that infamous keyboard, though I really don't know how to play the darn thing. And I'm planning to buy an electric guitar when I'm financial capable, a sort of personal gift for myself. I've owned 3 acoustic guitar only one manage to survive the ravage of time. Not really my fault though.
My guitar
I never regretted joining the band despite the my obvious lack of experience and everything there of. And though it was a great sorrow to depart in the end, yet I learn a lot from it. And as that chapter in my life close new once are written in an instant.
relate to K-On
As I watch episode after episode on K-On it brings back memories. The jamming session are all became carved in stone within me. It was a time when everything was possible the smile, the laughter the fun even the hardships all became vivid even to this day and on many days to come. And I'm sure anyone with the same
experience as I have would agree to it with all certainty.
It's something one can never forget as long as one can live.